Beware of Energy Vampires...........!!

Beware of energy vampires……….!!!

Are you feeling unworthy, stupid, unloved, offended, fearful, depressed, angry, depleted and even sick? I think you have let an energy vampire suck and drain your energy again. You must be thinking what this term is and who is an energy vampire. Okay let me tell you.

In your life, you meet so many people on the daily basis. There are some people who always light up your world, you feel good being around them. Sometimes you just delay some of your important work just to have some quality time with this kind of people. And when you walk away from them you always feel good.

Then there comes another type. This type of people is always making you feel bad in some or other way. Every time you meet them, you just feel like they are sucking your energy as if your phone’s charges drains all the energy from your power bank. You feel exhausted when the meeting is over with them. They act in the same way the vampires do. Vampires suck your blood and make you feel exhausted. In the same way, energy vampires exhaust you.

Energy vampires are immature people, who think they are self-important. They like themselves so much that they think; the whole world revolves around them. They are attention seekers and their slogans always are like “Me First”.

I would not list their types, but I will list their dialogues that they often speak.

“It is your fault; I don’t make mistakes”.

“You must be ashamed of yourself”.

“Oh, you achieved your goal? So, what’s the big deal in it?”

“You cannot do anything for me, I always feel insecure imagining my life with you”.

“I am so worried, and you don’t even care. How am I gonna live, if you won't help me? "

“You don’t deserve me”.

“I am the Mister/ Miss know-it-all”.

I guess you are thinking about all the energy vampires right now that you have encountered in your life. Right?

You can always let the people go, you can tell them simply to mend their business, to stay out of your life. If you cannot do this, there is always an easy way. Take your positivity to that level, where these types of comment may not bother you.

Sometimes, it is hard to get away from them.

Now you must be thinking, how to fight these energy vampires if they are my loved ones?

What if your loved ones are draining your energy?

How?

Okay, maybe it’s your relative auntie, who is always making you feel unworthy.

Maybe it is your sister who always uses your shoulder to shed the tears over her situation, but never ever does something practical to stand up against difficulties in her life.

Maybe it’s your step mother always telling you “you cannot do anything good in your life”.

Maybe it’s the girl/ boy, your future life partner, always telling you that you are lucky to have her/ him, but you did not deserve him/her.

So, you cannot dump these people out of your life. You cannot abandon them. Then follow these easy steps.

But first let me tell you I have also faced this situation. Yeah, I was so courteous and considerate that I let people drain my energy. I considered myself as a great person who always gives time to everyone, listens to them, I spent a lot of time worrying about them when even they were not interested in improving their situation.

Yeah, I was that foolish, that I worried about everyone’s problems that they were able to solve by themselves, I spent so many days not being productive in my life but for others, ended up having migraines daily just because of the stress that has nothing to do with my life. But everything must meet an end. Finally, I understood what was important in my life and what are those people who are epitome of energy for me.

Coming back to the point again, how to fight energy vampires?

Be positive

As I have already said, take your positivity to the possible higher level. Where you can feel energy vampires being over dramatic, you may listen to them yelling at you but let your positivity guard you in such a way that they can’t cut into you viscerally.

Set up boundaries

Yeah, don’t feel bad for pathetic people who cannot do anything for themselves. One must stand up for himself first. You don’t need to take someone else’s headache if he/ she is not interested by him/ herself.

Protect your vibrations

If you have a positive approach toward life, you will have a high frequency vibration, if you are being negative, you will have lower and denser frequency. There is a famous phrase “like attracts like”. Which means if you have lower frequency, you will attract those people who possess the same vibration. It is called the law of attraction. If you have high frequency vibration, you will attract more positive people.

How to have a high frequency vibration?

Firstly, do not leave yourself alone. By this I don’t mean to always have your house crowded. I mean that spend some quality time with yourself. Try to meditate, as you don’t have an idea what is going on in your head.

Secondly, make a list of those things in your mind that you are grateful for today. These things must include yourself, from your head to toe. Do you know eye transplant costs more than 27,000 dollars? Do you know heart transplant costs more than 400,000 dollars? I am not scaring you, I am trying to say that you have a perfect body and had it for years free of cost. Have you ever taken a moment out of your life to be grateful for what you own?

Thirdly, take a moment and appreciate beauty that exists in this world. There is beauty everywhere that only a single glance at it may fill you with positive energy.

Devine white light is always there to help you.

White color is a house for positivity in the world. It surrounds you and is the prominent color in your aura. White color reveals all the other colors that are present in this world. Imagine yourself wrapped in a white light and be positive. The good news is this light is available to all. This light does not discriminate between religions, sects or nationalities.

You can have it to protect you and you don’t need to beg for it. Because you have it in yourself. Always visualize yourself surrounded by this white light before you start your day, before you meet energy vampires and you will see how it protects you.

I hope this post will help you in a positive way. Leave comments if you like it.